Stereotypes can they be good or are they inherently bad?
Well this week’s “Seeing things differently,” takes a bit of a turn. Lynne was feeling a little under the weather and so prepare for me to give you both sides of the argument this week.
The topic? Stereotypes. Can they be good or are they inherently bad?
A stereotype is a cognitive shortcut, which lets you come to a quick conclusion about someone based on their gender, race, age, nationality, etc… Brains are hardwired to make this snap decisions and impulsively apply stereotypes to people, which creates a bias.
Is there such a thing as a good stereotype? Well being Canadian I feel as though our reputations and the stereotype that it has created is positive. Canadians are cold weather acclimatized, polite, say “eh” a lot, and are generally quite nice. I hold the door open for people, sometimes at that awkward stage of “they’re almost too far away but they’re close enough that if I just let the door close a little and reopen it they’ll be here, which results in them having to do a couple of hurried jogging steps.”
According to a CBC article too, our politeness sets us apart from our neighbours to the south. CBC looked at a study from McMaster University focused on using the internet in a way to help understand our global neighbours.
Commonly used words from Canadians on Twitter and Americans on Twitter discovering Canadians used the words “great,” “beautiful,” and “amazing” the most, being kind words.
The American tweets, however, were focused on unkind words: “hate,” “hell,” “tired,” “hurt,” and “annoying.”
The other top Canadian words included favourite, “Habs,” “Leafs,” “Raptors,” “Jays,” “hockey,” “eh,” “gorgeous,” “dreams,” and “morning.” While our neighbours to the south went with “damn,” “wanna,” “bored,” “sleep,” “school,” “dude,” and “Chipotle.”
The stereotypical Canadian likes hockey, lives in an igloo, and knows that the beaver, despite being a rodent, is a “truly, proud and noble animal” – to quote the Molson Canadian ad from years ago.
Canadians were so well liked that you used to hear about Americans travelling and affixing Canadian flags to their backpacks, so they wouldn’t get flack about being American because being stereotyped as a Canadian was better than being stereotyped as an American.
I’m not sure if that’s still common practice, but I’ve learned to accept the stereotype of being Canadian and I’ve definitely noticed that people do have preconceived images of what you should be like when they find out you’re Canadian.
Two years ago I headed out to Toronto just because I wanted to go to a Blue Jays game and decided I wanted to see Niagra Falls. So, off I went. I booked a tour to Niagra Falls and on the small bus tour I was the only Canadian. An American girl was sitting across and one row behind me, she threw up in a large Ziploc bag, proceeded to dump the bag out the window without concern that we were on the highway and the vomit - since the bag wasn’t closed - smeared across the side of the window.
If I were feeling that sick before getting on the tour I don’t think I would have went first off. Had I gone and thrown up in a Ziploc bag I likely would have sealed it and waited until we stopped to throw it out. However, despite not agreeing with how that situation developed, when we stopped I bought her a water. She had stayed on the bus, so I figured I’d be nice. Immediately I heard her start talking to her family, saying that act of kindness would never have happened in the States.
Later on that same trip, these two ladies who were from Europe on their annual trip together noticed by our third or fourth stop that I would let everyone off the bus before I got up, so they “forced” me off the bus before them at one point, which made me laugh, and yes I thanked them for letting me off first after saying that it was fine they could go first.
I was actually quite happy that I was holding up to my Canadian stereotype.
So, in this sense stereotypes aren’t the worst things in the world, but as with anything there is a flipside to that coin. A stereotype is not bad IF the stereotype being used is positive.
There are countless stereotypes out there, however, that are bad – in fact they can be downright damaging.
The idea that certain races of people are drunkards and lazy, that women are inherently bad drivers or terrible at math, and, a very popular one in the media since 2001, that all Muslims are terrorists are all examples of bad stereotypes that hurt people.
Not all women are terrible drivers and are bad at math. Not all Americans are rude and not all Muslims are terrorists, however, these seem to be the perpetuated ideas of the globe towards them, so they are singled out and fingers are pointed at them for being as such even though it’s not true.
What happens though is that we’ve been told these things are true, so our brain makes the shortcut and associates these negative connotations towards random people. You’re prejudged based on something that you’re not. There are professional drivers out there that are women, female scientists have become more prevalent – I in fact have a friend doing a master’s in Neurobiology – there are a lot of very polite and kind Americans out there, and women wearing burqa’s are not inherently more dangerous than a woman of a different faith.
Today I walked into a business after walking there from my house, I was completely bundled up because it was -20 something. Literally all you could see were my eyes, but nobody thought twice about me walking in, however had I been covered in a burqa would that have drawn different looks? Maybe, maybe not, I’m not about to assume anything about anyone, it’s simply one of those existential questions to ponder. However, why does it being cold out mean I can cover up my face and it be ok, when these people over here are covered up for religious reasons? Each are dressed in a certain way for a specific reason, but oftentimes one is judged more harshly than another.
That is where the stereotype comes in. I was a cold Canadian, where as they are a Muslim so they are to be considered with concern according to stereotypes.
There have also been studies on positive stereotypes and how they affect people in negative ways. For example, people sometimes say that African American descendants are much better at sports than anyone else. Since the stereotype was positive it is welcomed by African Americans, however, we don’t think about the larger connotations always.
Saying that “Black people are better at sports,” is really saying that there is a biological difference between African American people and other races, which actually reinforces negative stereotypes. So, even when something seems like it could be a positive stereotype, it may still have negative effects.