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Talking with God this Lent

The storm raged; the ship was sinking fast. The Captain called out, “Anyone here know how to pray?” One man stepped forward. “Aye, Captain.” “Good,” said the captain, “you pray while the rest of us put on our life jackets. We’re one short.

        The storm raged; the ship was sinking fast. The Captain called out, “Anyone here know how to pray?” One man stepped forward. “Aye, Captain.”

        “Good,” said the captain, “you pray while the rest of us put on our life jackets. We’re one short.”

        “Jesus got up before dawn and went away to a deserted place and prayed” (Mark 1:35).

        Curious that Jesus so frequently went aside to a quiet place and prayed. As God, you would think that he would just know the Father’s will. But Jesus was human, too. And like we, he struggled with temptation.

        In Gethsemane he really needed to talk to the Father. Jesus’ closest friends, like Teresa of Lesieux, spent a great deal of time talking with him.

        Maybe it is time to rethink our need for prayer. It is a little arrogant of us to think we do not need daily prayer. Even Hamlet said:

For every man hath business and desire,

Such as it is, and, for my own part,

Look you, I’ll go pray” (IV, v, 130-133).

        Father Brendan McGuire used this analogy: “Just because I have a desire to lose 20 pounds, I am not going to lose 20 pounds. In fact, we have plenty of evidence in the world of people who have said that…but never actually did it.

        “Once you decide, desire converts to a decision. ‘I am going to lose 20 pounds!’ That decision then necessitates a methodology to get there, a process, then a discipline to apply it. What does that look like? It might be ‘I am going to eat less. I am going to exercise more.’

        “That may be your methodology, and then you apply it day after day for about 30 days. We now have the habit of eating less and exercising more, which will mean we will eventually get to our goal… and then we have a virtuous habit. We will continue to eat less and exercise more because it has become a habit. The same is true for prayer.”

        Prayer requires the same discipline. McGuire says, “Some of you have told me, ‘We have grown up just going to Mass on Sunday. That was good enough for me then and it is good enough for me now.’ Let me say it again; it wasn’t good then, and it is not good now! Whatever you were told back then was wrong then and it is wrong now! We all need to pray every day. If Jesus prayed every day, then we ought to do it.”

        Ash Wednesday has Lent us another opportunity. We can decide to pray more this Lent.

        Before the discipline comes a process or methodology. Before that process comes a decision. Before that decision comes a desire. We can never do any of that if we do not even have the desire.

        This Lent find a deserted place. Listen in the silence. Building a habit of prayer will pay dividends for the rest of your life.

        The practise of regular prayer and meditation has added peace to my life. Transcendental Meditation, often engaged in after exercise, brings refreshing rest to restore muscles and mind.

        McGuire says, “The development of a prayer habit in our lives, I promise you, will pay dividends for the rest of our lives. If we can develop and really work at this habit of prayer, then later in life it will become a security for us that will radically change our lives.” 

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